First-Time Obedience: Should I Require Immediate Obedience from My Child?
A thoughtful and biblical look at this challenging question
3 señales de consecuencias poco útiles y que hacer al respecto.
Parenting in the Chaos: When There’s No Time to Be Calm | [Mini-Episode]
Hitting & Biting: How the Right Consequence Might Be Simpler Than You Think
And when hitting or biting happens, it’s completely natural if all your mama or papa bear instincts come out to protect their siblings. However, so often, when thinking about appropriate “consequences” for hitting, biting, and other aggressive behavior, what you’re actually looking for is a punishment that will teach your child a lesson. It’s normal […]
Make-It-Right Consequences for Kids | Ep. 176
3 Señales de Consecuencias Poco útiles… ¡y Cómo Solucionarlas!
Un niño que contesta mal y recibe como consecuencia un castigo de “ve a tu habitación y piensa en lo que has hecho” no verá la relación entre su elección de palabras y la consecuencia… porque no hay ninguna. Y en lo que probablemente el niño piense, si es que piensa en algo, es en […]
成果与惩罚的区别：培养孩子真正力量的教育方式
为了避免“自然后果”一词的常见误解而产生混淆，我们创造了“自然效应”一词，以便更容易识别和教导我们的孩子任何行为必然发生的因果影响。这种影响是在没有干预之下发生的。 弟兄们，若有人偶然被过犯所胜，你们属灵的人就当用温柔的心把他挽回过来；又当自己小心，恐怕也被引诱。 加拉太书六章一节 爱里没有惧怕；爱既完全，就把惧怕除去。因为惧怕里含着刑罚，惧怕的人在爱里未得完全。 ”约翰一书四章十八节
成果與懲罰的區別：培養孩子真正力量的教育方式
為了避免“自然後果”一詞的常見誤解而產生混淆，我們創造了“自然效應”一詞，以便更容易識別和教導我們的孩子任何行為必然發生的因果影響。這種影響是在沒有干預之下發生的。 弟兄們，若有人偶然被過犯所勝，你們屬靈的人就當用溫柔的心把他挽回過來；又當自己小心，恐怕也被引誘。 加拉太書六章一節 愛裏沒有懼怕；愛既完全，就把懼怕除去。 因為懼怕裏含著刑罰，懼怕的人在愛裏未得完全。” 約翰一書四章十八節
Consequences vs Punishment: What’s the Difference?
“a: suffering, pain, or loss that serves as retribution” “b: a penalty inflicted on an offender through judicial procedure.” To avoid confusion about a common misunderstanding of the term “natural consequences” we have coined the term natural impacts to make it easier to identify and teach our kids the automatic cause-effect impact of any behavior. […]
Coaching Your Kids to Make It Right | Ep. 111
3 key questions to ask in any discipline situation how to work with your child as a team for more effective discipline the opportunity in discipline to offer and receive God’s grace and forgiveness how to help your child see the natural impacts of their behavior how to guide your child to “make it right” […]