Stop Power-Struggle Parenting | Ep. 190
Are You Micromanaging Your Kids? Here’s How to Stop | Ep. 177
How to Become an Emotionally Safe Parent
What does it look like to become an emotionally safe parent? These simple steps will slow down the whole discipline effort so you can respond in an emotionally safe way. When you do, kids are much more likely to thoughtfully consider their own behavior instead of defending themselves. They might even learn some valuable life […]
My Child Doesn’t Believe in God. Now What?
Empathy is often a parent’s most powerful portal to influence. The last thing I would want is for them to stop telling me their doubts or to become afraid of the lingering questions in their mind. That’s what I did as a child, and I’m determined not to pass that on. I want them to […]
How Can I Get My Child to Obey? | Ep. 78
Does God require your kids to obey immediately? Immediate obedience is probably a familiar concept to you. And, to be quite honest, it’s a hot-button topic! If you’ve ever asked yourself, “How do I get my child to obey?” then this is the podcast for you! Or maybe you feel like your demands for first-time obedience […]
Demanding Kids: “I Want 2 Stories, 5 Kisses, and 10 Hugs”
It’s more refined as an adult, but is your response rooted in your desire for control? Or do you truly have your child’s growth in mind? Admitting your agenda, even to yourself, is a great first step at letting go of unhealthy control. This has helped many parents choose a new and more effective response. […]
My Child Is Not My Report Card
Several years ago Meg became acquainted with Connected Families. While she was listening to the Grace and Truth for Moms message, she was struck by this powerful thought, “I’m so glad Jesus is my report card, not the kids!” See if this message resonates with you as you read Meg’s story. In school I was what […]
A Better Way to Respond to Tantrums
Whether you call them tantrums, meltdowns, or “big feelings” – we all know that most kids (and therefore most parents) struggle at times when emotions overtake the ability to think and reason well. When it comes to dealing with kids’ tantrums, parents get pretty desperate. Unfortunately, even when equipped with the best tips and online […]
Is Your Response to Misbehavior Helpful or Hurtful?
What thoughtful question could you ask your child to build self-awareness of their behavior? How could you ask it in a way that communicates, “I love you and believe in you” as the primary message, avoiding a message of “You aren’t capable of figuring this out”? Register for our Discipline That Connects With Your Child’s […]
How I Got My Kids to Obey Immediately… and Why I Stopped
I remember like yesterday walking in the door after work to what I believed were out-of-control children in my wife’s care. She’d lean into me for help and I’d quickly get the kids in line. “Why can’t Lynne get this?” I’d wonder. Over time, however, I started seeing things a bit differently. As my kids […]
